Hi, it’s me 👋

I’M ZENIA

I’m a Perfectionist in Progress,
Aspiring Author & Bookworm Extraordinaire

All my life I’ve set and strived for big goals, but it wasn’t until I hit burnout a couple of years ago that I realized how my perfectionism was running me into the ground and keeping me stuck. 

After hours and hours of therapy, research & trial and error I learned how to take care of myself, how to treat myself with kindness and how to keep my thoughts in check.

I know what it feels like to be stuck, and I’m here to share what I’m learning and have learned, so you can manage perfectionism without letting it take over your life.

Currently

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Jelly icing I love chupa chups macaroon dragée. Marzipan pudding marshmallow lemon drops bonbon. Jelly icing I love chupa chups macaroon dragée.

Notebook with a note reading ‘You are more than your to-do list,’ used on the Overachiever Perfectionist results page under the ‘next steps’ section, paired with the ‘Reframe Failure’ action step.
Portrait of a woman used as the category image for perfectionism-related posts, symbolizing the personal journey of managing perfectionism.

“Nothing is impossible. the word itself says ‘I’m Possible!'”– Audrey Hepburn

My Favorite Things

02. My Husband

My husband and I are High School sweethearts and started dating when we were 16 years old. He is my best friend, and I love being a Musician’s Wifey.

04. Aaall the books

My book collection is my pride and joy.
I’m a sucker for Romantasy, so most days, you’ll find me lost in Velaris, wandering the halls of Zodiac Academy or soaking in the magic of The Magnificent North but when my brain needs a break from juggling ten maps, three magic systems, and a pronunciation guide, I’ll happily escape into a contemporary romance. I like what I like, okay? 🤣

06. Last One

Sesame snaps sugar plum ice cream macaroon tiramisu.

01. Olaf & Arlo

My fur babies that I named after Disney characters 🤭. Olaf after the snowman in Frozen and Arlo after the dinosaur in The Good Dinosaur.

03. Working Out

Sweet roll cake wafer candy canes soufflé toffee jujubes.

05. Writing

Caramels chocolate cake cupcake chocolate bar muffin cotton candy candy canes.
Need more talking space…

Soufflé soufflé marshmallow shortbread candy chocolate cake muffin. Cookie muffin liquorice.

Soufflé soufflé marshmallow shortbread candy chocolate cake muffin. Cookie muffin liquorice tiramisu jelly-o sugar plum cake topping topping. I love ice cream I love apple pie chocolate bar carrot cake shortbread. Tart pastry halvah cake sweet gummies fruitcake.

Macaroon jelly beans jelly cotton candy macaroon toffee. Lemon drops pie cupcake gummies wafer brownie tart halvah chupa chups. I love liquorice cake chupa chups jelly croissant I love oat cake.

Macaroon jelly beans jelly cotton candy macaroon toffee. Lemon drops pie cupcake gummies wafer brownie tart halvah chupa chups. I love liquorice cake chupa chups jelly croissant I love oat cake.

Talk Soon 💌

– Zenia